Life changes. It’s just the way it is. No avoiding it. It happens every day. You would think we would get used to it. But nope. Every time significant change occurs in our lives we act surprised by it. Like we don’t expect it. And yet there it is, the mainstay of human existence.
What is it about change that we find so difficult? We prefer what is known to what is unknown. There is security in where we are at. We know what to expect. We understand the rules and parameters of the now. Change ushers in new rules and regulations and a lot of “what if” and “what now”.
I want to make the case that change is good, that we should embrace change with all our might. Some of the most dramatic life changing experiences we have propel the human race forward on its course. Who doesn’t appreciate the bliss of a mother as she cuddles her newborn son or daughter? Or the joy of a new bride and groom as they contemplate their life ahead? These are life changing experiences we encourage and hold tight.
We expect these changes to help us grow and flourish. I say we should view all change in this way. Change keeps us from getting lazy. It forces us to mature and move forward with life. No stragglers allowed when change is part of our life. Stragglers get left behind.
Whether we view change as a positive or negative experience is of no consequence as to what it has to teach us. Change, expected or not, makes us better. It compels us to grow and understand in more significant and profound ways. I say hurray for change.
Great words of wisdom. I agree 100% =)
ReplyDelete*thumbs up* b*-*d very wise words. I couldn't agree more.
ReplyDeleteChange is a peculiar thing. Not to disagree, but if everything is constantly changing, then it is always in that state. It doesn't change--change always happens. It's the same.
ReplyDeleteAlso...what about the stragglers? Is it the responsibility of those who understand and respond to change to help those who are left behind? Or are we supposed to turn away and leave them be?
ReplyDeleteWell yeah ultimately we have to carry the stragglers if necessary.
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